8 Months????

So I have sort of an update on somethings....I talked to my Lawyers assistant today on the phone...I was calling her to see if they called Ecuador to check up on the stats of Rogelio's case...she told me that they did not use the pin number and they e-mailed Ecuador because they did not want to use my min's on my pin number.....Um hello that's why I got the pin number in the first place is for them to use it...I do not know why they did not just write a e-mail in the first place....they are the ones who told me to buy the pin number and that is the way they check on things...ummm...actually they could have e-mailed the whole time...odd...anyways so she sent the e-mail to Ecuador and we have to wait up to 2 weeks to get a response from them...they will be telling my lawyer's when they sent the paper work off to Panama...we filed the papers in Ecuador in January of 2010...so...

My lawyer's said depending on when they actually sent the paper work out to Panama...then we will know aprox when he will be able to get approved...but here is the thing she told me that it most likely will take a min of 8 months from the date they sent the paper work to panama!!!!! That is so crazy!!! When I heard 8 months I almost cried!! That is not some thing that I want to hear after I have been waiting this long!!! Then she told me that she thinks it will be 15 Months max!!! Are you crazy are you out of your mind!!! That is so long!!! WTF!!! Really???? Do you guys want me to die before I can actually have a real life with my husband and kids and be in a real frame of mind????

So I am not sure what I am going to do about all this...I don't think I am going to do anything intel I hear from my lawyers within two weeks here...so I will be freaked out in the mean time...I also have another person working on some things...I can not say the name of the person but someone else is checking on things with my husband so we will see how all that goes and see what she also says...

I hope I hear at least some good new's from one of the people...I am thinking about getting other people involved but the only thing with that is alot of people do not like to get involved when other party's are already working on some things...but we will see how things go for these two weeks.

I really do want to go down to Ecuador to be with Rogelio but I have to think of everything before I just make a jump and do that...Like I said before...the kids come first right now because Rogelio and I have to do what is best for them...we will see how everything turns out.

Miguel turns 3 this month....Rogelio really wishes that he could be here for his birthday..it is really hard on the kids and I and more harder on Rogelio not to be here. As he always tells me what if I was to have the kids down here and you were alone over there....would you feel lost and lonely? I always say yes! I do not know what I would do without Rogelio and the kids not here..

Antonio tells me all the time that he wants to go live with papi...I always tell him I am sorry but you can not you need to wait for him to come home...he still dose not fully understand but he will one day that we kept him in America for the best for him.

Well enof of me blabing on...I will update you guys soon on more things that go on tommw is Rogelio's birthday....I am sad that I am not with him!! Happy 1 day early Birthday honey I love you more then the whole world! Te Amo Mucho!!!!!

Still on the waiting page of life:(

So nothing new as of right now to really update people for....but thought that I should write on here anyways. Antonio had his spring vacation we did do a lot of things then just sit around the house and read ....lol...we actually left the house and did things....my niece came over for a few days also and that was nice to see her...even though we tried to get her to go on web cam and see her dad she was too shy...her dad was upset and still dose not understand why she was acting the way that she was acting....

I understand why she was acting that way well almost understand but what I get from it is...shes 13 years old she is a teenager...you can't tell them everything to do because they will not listen they have to want to do it on there own. She loves her father and wants to see him but she wants to see him in person....I know that she still dose not understand about the whole immigration system even though she tells me she understand she is still a teenager and it is going to take her years to fully understand...A big reason that she was shy was that there was other family members there that she dose not know that much only from talking to on the computer a bit and she feels odd having everyone look at her on cam. She has not seen her father in person for about 5 years now because he was deported years back... he has tried to come back a few times only reason is to be here with his daughter but he got caught all the times he had tried. It has been really hard for him to live without his daughter...I hear about it all the time.....I wish that she would have been able to go with us when we went to Ecuador but her mom had not took the steps to get her passport so she was not able to go....passports seems easy to get right? nope not when you are under 18 and one parent is not in the country....but it can be easy....you have to get a paper from the passport place and have the parent out of country fill it out notarize it and send it back when you get it back then you have to take it to the passport place and file for a passport....after the person out of country has signed it and sent it back go right away to the passport place because there is a time line that the paper that was signed is good for.

I guess it is just harder for some people to do. Everyone is different I guess....so on another note Rogelio has been keeping his mind on other things like helping his brother out and doing things to help people down in Ecuador....along with fishing and hunting alot:) He would love to hunt when he comes back here because that is something that he has done alot of since he has been down there:)

Rogelio has been telling me how much it is raining down there and it makes him almost miss the snow....he is not much of a rain person:) I think it dose it for you when you all winter are in rain not snow...very different when you were used to snow for over 16 years and then go from snow to rain....lol...

It is very much the baby boom in Ecuador....seems like everyone lately is having babys!! So crazy! Rogelio will be sending me photo's from Ecuador soon....I can't wait to see them:)

I really hope that Rogelio is able to come home soon...Still a waiting game....I wish that he would be able to come home next week sometime....I really miss him and I know that he misses us. The kids need there father here and it has very much affected Antonio with all things...only because Rogelio is not here...a growing boy needs his father here.....Love you all take care I will keep updates when I have them:) Pray that Rogelio can come home soon!!<3