Thursday, November 19, 2009

Longer then we thought...

Ok I get it People don't tell me things that they don't know there self. Lol Its funny actually thinking about some of this stuff. Hum....I wonder if it is actually true. Is it true that of what I am thinking about? Dose my lawyer not actually know what the steps are in the immigration process. Is this a test it out and see if he is right type of thing? Really? There are so many things that point to it that he might just be going threw what steps he has heard of over the years and that he has not made it all the way threw the process to actually know how it works.

So my lawyer has been telling me since the last interview that Rogelio had that this is what is going to go on. So last interview Was October 27th,2009 since then he said that we need according to the paper. Some things that we have to fill out and file with the wavier. Then some legal documents. OK check got all that. Then the letter from my self saying how I am doing and what has gone wrong and problems and so on since Rogelio has been gone. Ok check got that. The lawyer did help me write some more things in there witch I think was fine, I needed him to help me with it so he can reword things to actually sound like I meant it. My words are not as easy to say for myself. So all that has been sent to Ecuador and is in Rogelio's hands.

Well so far so good right? Yeah right! Rogelio found out that he needed a diff rent birth Certificate. ( In Ecuador there is two types) so he got that taken care of. Then he had to get that translated into English and get Prof that he has no police Record in Ecuador. Ok he got that He just needs to Translate it. Then Tomorrow he will be calling to make a interview. Sounds good right?

Nope! Here to find out he is not setting up his 2nd interview. He is actually setting up a date that he can turn in his papers for his wavier and to file it. Um....ok the lawyer did not say it like that he said that we are setting up our 2nd interview when he calls. Nope the lawyer was wrong yet again! So what Rogelio dose is turns in the papers when the guy tells him to come in then waits for the papers to be looked over and approved and then he will get an interview date. He will go to the interview and when its approved he will be able to come home, sounds easy but, when you get your hopes up so much that he is going to be home asap and you leave out the step that's not right. Do you know what you are doing lawyer? hum... Makes you think.

On a good note...things will go on and we just need to keep moving and not let things stop us. I just can't wait Intel he is back here in my arms and we are once more a family together! Rogelio is the reason I live he is my life my everything. I can't wait in tell his return to us! Please pray that we will be together soon!!! Love you all hope to talk to you soon:)

Friday, November 13, 2009

So....

I had the meeting with the lawyer and finished everything that we needed to finish on wed so we are just waiting now for Rogelio to make the interview appointment and then we will know the time frame He will be returning! I really hope that its before Christmas! Please pray for us that it will be before Christmas! I hope everything works out just fine and we don't have to be in pain anymore! I will keep you guys updated!

Monday, November 9, 2009

Waiting......

So I was to call the office of my lawyer today in the morning to make a appointment for this week. Um yeah I knew what they were going to say when I called....no appointments! So I called to see if I was right.....Yep! I was right...They said that he has no appointments Intel Monday the 16th! Um yeah that is not right seems odd! So the women who picked up the phone I told her that the lawyer sent me a e-mail saying on a certain day he wanted to meet and the day was wide open! So she said give her a hour and she will talk to him about it. Hum......Lets see what is going to happen. Today marks the two weeks that we have been waiting on the lawyer since Rogelio's interview! gezzzzzz seems that we are always waiting on the lawyer for something....like I said before he has way to many clients to handle. Note to all lawyers don't take on cases if you already have way too many! All people should get things done asap! Thats why they pay you so much money!

Another note....Antonio I think is going to lose another tooth its very loose! Also Miguel hit his front tooth on Friday on a table and we went to the dentist and he said he thinks it will be fine hes about 90% sure. It just looks different then it did before. It gave him alot of pain at first but not it seems to have no pain for him. Miguel is VERY active and never stops as I am writing this he is yelling Hyden is at the door...( hes not) he is a kid who lives by us. Lol

Rogelio told me last night that he has been riding a motorcycle with his cousin! I totally freaked out because I don't want him to get hurt. I am not there and it scares me since the streets down there are dirt! Rogelio has always wanted one but I don't want him to get hurt. He said he is learning how to drive one, that scares me. I told him he needs to ride a 4 Wheeler! It seems safer then a motorcycle! Church is right next to his house and they are so loud!! It gets so hard to hear Rogelio when church is going on.

Oh yeah almost forgot! Last night Rogelio told me that he got this paper delivered to his house on Friday! The paper is from the U.S. saying he has a interview on Oct 27th, 2009! LOl hello it was past the date like almost by two weeks. Rogelio open it and told the guy hello do you see the date on this? What a stupid guy to deliver the notice almost 2 weeks late! Thank God Rogelio has me keeping on top of things! Lol ( I thought it was super funny) At least it shows how things run down there. Also How did they find Rogelio? That's the big question...We only told them a city and a phone number to his cell. There are no addresses! Odd. Any who I am sure I will write later to tell you if we did get a appointment this week or what we decided to do.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

I Can't wait for a week!!!

So on Friday we were suppose to have a appointment with our Lawyer at his office, but he cancelled it. He said that he was in court and could not make it to our appointment. I hate when he cancelled or says things that he dose not do. The main problem is that he has to many clients and he dose not take good care of them or be there when he is suppose to. That is what upsets me alot. I don't understand when people don't take me as important as the other clients. I hired you to do a job and expected it to be done asap. Not wait two weeks then have appointment. In my eyes that is not fair.

I wish that I had all the money in the world so I could pay for a better lawyer that actually gets my things done on time. I know I am always complaining about something. I am just an unhappy person right now with the things that go on. I am happy that the interview went well but, not happy with the lawyer. I think that I deserve more respect.

So anyways on another note, Rogelio had to get his birth certificate and police record again so he did and he got it fast this time witch is good. It only took 2 days last time it was more then 2 weeks!. Rogelio went fishing with his family the other day, he caught alot of fish. He says that he wishes that he could take some fish home here with him from Ecuador. ( he can't) I have seen people ship fish here from Ecuador before but it did not look so good and it was with dry ice. Lol.

So holidays in Ecuador last more then 2 days there. Like last week it was Oct 31-Nov 4th! That means that police and government places were closed! I thought a day was alot to be closed! but 5 days is alot! Rogelio says that he thinks it's people wanting to party and that's why they have it that way, lol in other words he has no clue why they are closed so long.

So I want to go to Ecuador! I feel like it has been so long since I have been able to see Rogelio and I can't wait any longer!! So if money starts falling out of the sky I will be going to Ecuador lol. Rogelio has been having a hard time with it too, but I think that I am having a harder time with it. Being stuck in the house with not much to talk about but school work or playing with Antonio and Miguel is good only so long!:(

Miguel! Wow is he a wild one! He has gotten even wilder since he turned 2! He never stops! he goes and goes I want to take the battery's out but there is none!! Can someone invent a thing to make the kid sit down for a min? gezzzzzzzzz makes so so tired and crazy at times. It is very hard to raise two kids alone! I don't know how single moms do it! Well kids are into things so gotta go talk to you all later:)